We don't mean "are you a huge bodybuilder" but are you satisfied with the results of your training and happy to get the shirt off without feeling that you might look inferior? The good news is that, if you are training regularly, you are NOT inferior - you are simply following the pathway to 'alpha' at your own pace, and that gives you the confidence you need to show off a bit.  Today's guys are more than willing to show you what they've earned in the gym!